I’ve been taking a break from Tot School posts the last few weeks, and honestly it’s felt good. So good in fact, that I’ve been wondering if I should start them up again. And then, I wonder what would be the point of my blog if I didn’t write about what we do in Tot School? And then I re-read a lot of comments from previous TS posts and, well, I have to say comment-love is a powerful drug. ;)
Do your school re-cap posts each week take you forever to write?? I’ve saved a tremendous amount of energy and time by not writing these posts… it’s really amazing actually. Maybe it’s just me, but one TS post will take me an entire evening to write. All the photo editing, photo organizing, linking to other sites, blah blah blah. If you have any tips on making this simpler, I’m all ears! Maybe it’s just that I’m a born talker, er rambler. :)
I am in the middle of assessing and re-thinking how we spend our TS time and how I have it organized. This post will most likely be a lot of thinking out loud and more rambling. So, bear with me. :)
During my pre-Christmas blog break I created a “master list” spreadsheet of all our school items – anything we have that we use for school. I tagged each item with a subject or skill area (or two), added notes, and a check box to indicate whether or not it is an activity that M can do independently. (Whether or not it’s something he enjoys doing independently is another matter altogether!)
So, here’s our new plan…
I’m going to set out 5 to 7 independent or minimal-mama-involvement activities for him each week, changing a few of them up during the week as he finishes the original ones (ie. cut and paste sheets). Many of these will be things like his Melissa and Doug toys, fine motor skill projects, etc.
We also re-organized his space with the shelving. The little cupboard on the lower right houses all our games now, and we are having many fun evenings as a family because of this easy access. There are matching games, homemade games, card games, board games, dominoes, bingo, Barrel of Monkeys… just lots of fun stuff! :) The top of the right side holds M’s ABC book, his ABC lapbooks, all our flannelboard sets, a file folder with activities related to our current theme, and our current sensory bin (not all of this is in the pic, sorry).
On the left side, on the top are all his musical instruments (guitar to the side) and our songs and poems binder.
Then, on the shelves below this are his current activities. I will most likely keep the pipecleaner letters and sand tray on there all the time. Other than that, the activities on the shelves will be featured on my weekly TS post. However, because these are things that M will be doing on his own mostly, photos will pretty much be hit or miss. I’ll try to take pictures of the actual activities, but catching him doing it is another matter.
While we are talking about taking photos I should mention that I’ve decided to always ask M’s permission to take a picture of him doing our school things. I think the poor kid feels a little pressured sometimes, or less important than the blog, when I’m constantly snapping pictures. I’ve thought about this and I have to say I would not want someone taking my picture all the time as I’m trying to learn something new. It’s so easy to forget to respect the fact that kids are little people with feelings too. So, I’m working hard on this, and you may end up seeing fewer pics of M in my posts.
I’m also going to bring back our one morning a week that we spend about 1/2 hour together “doing” school. We both used to love this time together. But M was asking to “do school” all the time! Hence, the activity shelves. Yet, it’s not fair to M to set things out on the shelves for us to do together and then not find the time (right now!) to do them; not to mention it’s creating stress for me, what with running around trying to get chores done so I can do these things with M.
The other days I’m going to focus our time together on reading, music, sensory activities, baking, free-playing, art, and our fun science experiments. Many of these will most likely have their own post if I post about them, and I’m not sure I’ll include them in my TS posts. It would just be one more thing to link up to.
We continue to enjoy our calendar and Bible Story time together every morning as well as our quick “morning message”, and I want to make our Bible story activities a priority over any other schoolwork each week. So if I have a craft or game or whatever, planned to go along with a Bible story we’ve read, and we only have 20 minutes that week to do school together, then that’s what we’ll end up doing!
Whew. Did I cover everything I want to do? This is one of those posts that are mainly for me – so I can go back and read about exactly what I want to do and remember my priorities! Thanks for hanging on to the end. :) Any suggestions for making things simpler are always welcome!
Have a beautiful day! :)

There’s buttons, googley eyes, ribbons, pipecleaners, and various lids here.


I’ve noticed that if I occupy him with this kind of thing, he is quite happy to play on his own as long as I’m sitting at the table, cooking, or just hanging out in the kitchen. We explored how snow melted into water and then we set it back outside. Saturday morning he remembered it and we brought it in and he played with the ice!
See that tripod grasp? He’s really come a long way with this lately. I showed him how “real artists” hold their paintbrushes and told him it’s important to make those muscles really, really strong, and he totally got into it. He always wants me to help him hold the paintbrush the right way and it’s carried over to activities like this!
When I made this I put magnets on the back of the letters and we do one half of the alphabet at a time on a cookie sheet. We also take turns (I made a lot of mistakes that he had to correct ;) ), which makes it more fun and game-like for him. He tells me a letter to find and then I have to find it and put it on the right spot, then I do the same for him. If he is having trouble, it’s easy to tell him the color of the circle he needs, as a little help.
The right side piece of each mitten attaches with velcro. He did great with this, which I knew he would (he was able to do it last year), but I added in a step where he had to describe the design to me - “a green rectangle above a blue circle” – as he found each mitten to match.
He’s been asking to make colored ice cubes lately, which was something we did quite often over the summer. He wants to use them in his bath. Seriously, this kid comes up with some funny (but fun!) ideas sometimes. So I decided to add a color mixing lesson in. He loves using pipettes, so this is always fun. Then he had fun dripping the water onto paper towels:
He knew to look for pieces that had a little bit of whatever image he was looking for, and didn’t need any help at all. I’ve asked for some puzzles for him for Christmas from relatives, and I’m interested to see how he does with a 50 piece one. Needless to say I have bought out all the 25 piece ones at Dollar Tree. :)
Hee hee. He asked me to get it for him a lot this week, and loves experimenting with the different sounds he can make with it. We also listened to a lot of Christmas music – grown up and kid kinds. ;) I have to be diligent about playing cds in our home because since he was born I haven’t listened to much music. We never listen to the radio and I feel like I am always craving peace and quiet. It’s been nice to have music back in our day, it can do so much to brighten our moods!



It also had a cute mini-book to make that had M decide what animal would be on the next page by looking at a small part of the animal on the page before:
It also had mazes, games, great fact pages… I could go on and on. I have heard of Your Big Backyard, but I had no idea it was such an awesome magazine. We loved it!
He did a great job with it and had a lot of fun sorting the shapes out first. Anything with googley eyes and/or glue is sure to be fun. :)
I brought them out again and he had fun learning this cute rhyme:
This was much too easy, so we switched to a large spoon:
Complete with winter hat and winter coat on underneath everything.
Then we used the same card to match beginning sounds. We talked about the distinction between words that have the same sound at the beginning and words that rhyme. These are not easy concepts for a 3 year old to understand, and I think I probably should’ve used this page for just one or the other concept, not both.
These were pretty easy for M – he simply circled the “different” object in each group. He loves doing things like this and I like to include something I know will be easy for him. A little ego-boost never hurt anyone. ;) These were also found
He made two monsters (we call them “silly creatures” because monsters are a bit much for him lately):
You can read more about it in
Just haphazardly gluing shapes to the pumpkins. :) So, we talked about the shapes, and we talked about the different sizes of the pumpkins – tall, thin, short, wide, small and large. I showed him how to use the shapes to make a jack-o-lantern, but he decided to do his own thing. That’s ok, I’m really trying to make this more fun for him than anything else. And he learned more this way than he probably would’ve if he’d done it the *planned* way. Here’s how they turned out:
The inspiration for this idea came from
I found the poem online and just copied it into a Word document with some pumpkin pictures I created from an online coloring page. (I know this poem was on someone’s blog; unfortunately I just copied it right then and forgot to save the blog url to my handy dandy idea spreadsheet. If you had this on your blog, let me know so I can link to it!)
They were heavenly. I wish you could all have one!
This was definitely the “hit” of the week. I posted more about this game 
